wahhhpiang!
i shall be presented by Most Careless Mother Award..for the day!
went to church this morning and PLEASE go church is to worship God not play at the back of the sanctuary! for Chirst sake, literally! tsk tsk tsk…that’s exactly what we did…PLAY! and…
A BUA-LOOO-KU for victoria! its totally my fault. if i have insisted that we gone back to our seat and focus on the worship, instead of ‘following’ vic’s whines to ‘i don’t wanna sit here’ this may not have happen. i was wearing a skirt (pre pregnancy ones okay!!) and flare ones, so it look really fun to play around my skirt. so my dear darling kept running and bash into me and the skirt will sorta wrap around her face, she keep playing so i ‘made’ it more fun so i started moving my hips left and right and next thing! MISS CUE! and she missed my body and went pass me and fell on the floor and cry!! so i picked her up and hug her so she can cry in my chest (like that not so loud mah). after few seconds, i lift her away from me and AHHH! A HUGE BUMP GREW OUTTA HER FOREHEAD oh ma ma so big!! really like those Tom and Jerry when they kena hit by a hammer their bua loo gu grow upwards, so is victoria’s! i’m so amazed and worried at the same time.
thankfully all my friends are there to help – take dorothy lah, buy ice lah, help to coax victoria to allow us to cold compress the swell lah, although i try to stay zai, my hands were kinda shivering.
NO MORE PLAYING during worship or letting victoria go wild.
heartache sia…so…
guilty mother went to buy a ‘peace’ for victoria…her very first thomas and friend toy. victoria is such a gentle person. i purposely got it wrap up so she can rip it open (just for fun lah!) but she gently peel off the tape, and open the top, took out the toy and wrapper still look brand new! she’s very un-child! thought this toy is just another plain toy - all japanese how to know their function?! wen we start playing…wow! i’m amazed! the train is a normal pull back train and you can arrange the tree, the house and the windmill so it can go forawrd and bang the things and it’ll bounce in different direction. $11, steep but oh well, buy ‘peace’ lor…someone say we are able to love others because we have enough love in our life…my dad used to buy me toys when i’m sick and it did made me feel better, hope vic feel better too.
get well soon baby girl!
shopaholic
whenever i see this mother-daughter in my church i hope and pray that my girls and i will be like them. close enough to share deepest sorrows and BFF 
i have my share of mother-daughter time on saturday with victoria. we went SHOPPING! such the girly womanly thing to do. i dun really enjoy shopping that much last time but now S-H-O-P-P-I-N-G has new meaning – more time with my girl (only for now, next time wil be girlS)!
think victoria also kena the girls-must-love-to-shop bugs and she picked an expensive pair of shoes to try *faint* the mother is very tempted buy but gently told her, ‘oh this shoes are too big for you, next time we buy okay?’ actually i no needa to say ‘next time buy’ cuz she also never say she want wad! just the adult in me THINK of buying oni…tsk adults! check out those rubber boots!! so hard to find but i finally found it and its on sale BUT NO i didn’t buy…sole too heavy BUT SO SO CUTE!!! of course victoria tried everything! she just happily took her sandals out and on the green froggy ones, the pink dora ones, the stars, the stripes, the Cars, the minnie, the mickey..*pant*pant*
don’t know why since the birth of dorothy i’ve been dying to shop and hopefully can buy something. anything 50c or $5 or $50 (not $500!) anything! den i’ll feel satisfied. am i becoming a shopaholic? yikes! i scared! cuz i dun think i’ll have enough money to keep buying 50c stuff!!! ha ha…
i really thank God for my girls -
Victoria is so well behaved at the shopping centre and shops. no pulling or yanking is needed. no screaming, only the occasional ‘victoria! mummy’s here!’ (while digging into the $6 per blouse tub) or the occasional ‘maaahmmeee!’ (cuz i taught her to shout MUMMY if i’m outta her sight cuz her voice very soft lah) shopping with her is so fun! she’ll take blouse in walk into the changing room and put it on her chest and admire herself AND she’s take take a shirt put it on my leg and say ‘mummy, let me measure you!’ (cuz she too short to reach my body kekeke…as i cannot NOT buy a $6 blouse for her, i didn’t even care that its gonna be her bed time WHICH MEANS she’s gonna keee siao very soon BUT she’s so well behave till the very last minute – she totally deserve the 2 $6 blouse and hair clips i buy for her.
Dorothy is becoming really adorable with her laughter and grins and toothless smile. she recognises me now (awww…so fast hor!) whenever she sees me toothless grin begins! today she so happy, i just needa say CHIKEN RICE she laugh and snort! but when i say BAK CHOR MEE . . . no reaction. when chicken rice again, she giggled and scream ha ha ha so far i love this phase of her most!
love you both, babies! MUAKS!
